The truth

What has happened in the past month has changed our marriage. The truth came out and here are the events leading up to it. 

A few weeks ago he came back and I got my pass. This was the last time his workplace was sending him there as they laid him off. When the next weekend was about to come along he mentioned that he was thinking of going away again to the same place for a week this time. I thought it would be good if I could go with him but he used everything he had to make me see it would be better if he went alone.  He had a friend there who he could stay with. I thought everything was fine with us until on my way home from work I got a text from him telling me he was on his way there now to stay for the weekend. I felt upset. I kept telling him he has to tell me about his plans and we discuss it before he goes.

So when I got home the kitchen was a disaster. I had to get some food and toilet paper on my way home and realized that money had to be deposited into an account and I had no time with my work schedule. I had too clean up after a hard day of work standing and serving people. I was furious for him not thinking about me. 

We had a long text discussion as to him not sharing his plans with me. I felt left out and that I wasn't part of his life. He kept telling me he's not happy with himself.